Detaching With Love: Setting Boundaries with Difficult Elderly Parents
When the family member we are trying to care for is critical, impossible to please or emotionally abusive, long-standing family dynamics are often to blame.
I’m not talking about caring for an elder who is suffering from chronic pain or who has little control over their moods and behaviors because of dementia. In those cases, it’s clear that we need the help of professionals to find a solution, like palliative care for symptom relief or a memory care unit that specializes in dementia behaviors.
What I'm referring to are children who, after a historically toxic relationship, are now in a position where they need to make care decisions for an abusive family member.
Raymond James is not affiliated with Carol Bradley Bursack, CDSGF or Agingcare.com
